…I’m here and registered in Blahaj instance but I’m not even remotely close to being queer? I’m a white straight guy getting married to a woman next week (can I get some honey for that) but I’m in full support of decent human beings. My fiance was asking why I signed up with the gay server, and it’s because you guys are just nice and relaxed community. Also, our celebrant is a lesbian, but most importantly, my best friend and that’s what matters, right?
Hahah my fiance always worries that I’m gay because I’m pretty flamboyant. Not to worry, I’m not gonna steal any boys from the community 🤣
that might be why you like to hang around gay people; if you presentation is “gay-ish,” it’s a type of fitting-in to be with people who commonly act like you, or at least don’t raise an eyebrow at it. i’m glad you found a comfortable crowd to run in
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