It happened to me recently at work. I don’t even find her physically attractive, and her personality is not what I’m into at all. But I was still somehow attracted to her - and she also was to me. She didn’t like me, and I certainly am not the kind of man she goes for. It’s like we had a strong connection in one area beneath the subconscious or something, but every other area was completely incompatible. Aggressively so.

Anyone else have anything similar?

    • AttackBunny@lemmy.world
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      1 year ago

      I’m really not sure why you’re getting downvoted for this. It’s true. Whether people think it’s “tasteful” or not doesn’t change reality.

      I grew up in San Diego, so huge marine and navy population. There are a handful of bars that are super fun to people watch at (typically JUST off base) for this exact reason. Alcohol and desperation make interesting bedfellows.

      • kratoz29@lemm.eeEnglish
        3·
        1 year ago

        I’m really not sure why you’re getting downvoted for this.

        I think because it is a duplicated comment… Or lemmings got confused approving or disapproving this kind of comments lol.