heyy 196, a friend is brainworming and thinks no one will be attracted to them, if they get boobs. they have a twinkish build and expect big boobs. what do y’all think?

  • Maven (famous)@lemmy.zip
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    1 month ago

    Boobs are boobs and boobs are hot…

    That’s pretty much it really. I’m attracted to boobs. The rest is circumstantial.

  • Norah - She/They@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    1 month ago

    I’ve had a few trans boyfriends, and I was still attracted to them when they took their binders off ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

    Also, there’s nothing preventing them from stopping hormones if they start to grow bigger than they are comfortable with.

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      1 month ago

      thank you, thats honestly what i thought.

      they mainly take e for the emotional effect it has on them (i dont think thats why they started but its why they wont stop), so they dont have much controll over their breast growth

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    1 month ago

    I’m guessing the worry is about whether people will find them attractive in a boy way if they have big boobs. It might be about seeming too much like a woman if they have such noticeable boobs. There will obviously be people attracted to them, but will those people see their boobs as manly? The literal concern sounds like brainworms, but it seems motivated by dysphoria rather than dating options. That dysphoria doesn’t seem based in reason, so it probably can’t be reasoned away.

    I’ve heard of treatments that interfere with breast growth, but I have no idea which ones or how effective they are. The acceptance route can have an effect, but if they feel really dysphoric about it, acceptance probably won’t get them all the way.

    • Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      1 month ago

      I think the F1nnster “coming out as trans” video mentioned they were on something to prevent breast growth?