In the last year or so I started to see so many people of my age that have done truly incredible things and still doing more.
For the vast majority of my life my only goals were gettimg academic satisfaction and doing unproductive stuff in the free time to get temporary pleasure. No end goal whatsoever.
I kind of don’t know what I’ve been doing in the last 17 years while someone gets a patent on solar systems, other invents a new recyclable plastic, and another found a successful startup. I mean, they all find what they’re supposed to be doing with their lives and excel in them.
I feel overwhelmed for trying to pace up with these kind of people. Yet I don’t like the way the things are and I can’t do anything but envy those people.
Anyone with experience in this regard? How did you deal with this? Did you eventually “pace up” with these people or was it too late or an unattainable goal?
Edit: Whoops, I didn’t expect so many replies! Thanks, I’ll look into them all
Jealousy is a huge motivator. Having to do something for a purpose is even better. What do you want to do? Because the endeavors you mentioned don’t happen overnight. When your sitting at your desk solving some problem that you didn’t even anticipate and you’re not even doing that thing you set out to do, it’s hard to stay motivated. So, what is it about those endeavors that you mentioned piques your interest?
I just gave a few examples. They’re just doing something that is good for them, good for people around you, and definitely fulfilling. Especially contrasting with what I’ve been doing while these were happening.
It’s not that I don’t want to work. I really do. I actually worked a lot as well but I worked on stuff that doesn’t help me. I’m very ambitious
I don’t know what to do. But I can kind of point out with my finger towards what I’m looking for