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Reddit was awesome. It’s sad what became of it.
Started in Lemmy but kbin’s reputation system woo’d me over!

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Cake day: September 29th, 2023

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  • I always write when I feel bad enough.

    I wrote down about my bad feelings. I wrote a letter I pretended to send them - it helped a lot.
    I created a tool I used to see where on my way on healing I was. I used a clicker to measure amounts of thought I had about them and made a chart out of it (It was awesome to see how the thoughts dwindle to nothing with time)!

    You can also talk about it with friends, family and strangers.


  • I was once handed a princess to use as a playable character in my first text-based chat roleplaying game with 3-5 other people of girls and boys.
    It quickly grew on me and I started using girls more often as my playing character from then on.

    I won’t deny that looking at them could be generally nicer, but I believe it’s not the main reason. At least when it comes to text roleplaying, I like to (try) think and behave like a lady in games, to roleplay in their world of view. It’s neat in its own way and I love the immersion when it hits me!













  • On reddit at its best, and lemmy, you don’t really talk to anyone you know irl, instead, you engage with strangers, and the subreddit/community format means you do so based on common interests.

    It could be vaguely compared to a physical club of a common interest where you go to listen strangers discussing a thing, and to decide whether you want to contribute to it in some way.


  • Some folks get more out of social media than others.

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    The only social media I use is kbin, and a bit of Reddit.
    I feel like kbin is half the connection I can get compared to a Whatsapp discussion with a friend. But then again, I like the idea of Reddit-based services, I’m interested in different topics presented here that I don’t see in my discussions with people in real life and since I want this place to grow because of all the potential discussions one can delve in here, I comment and create data here myself; use kbin to make that possible for me and others that are interested in using this service.
    On mobile I mostly read-only though.

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    What comes to other hobbies - life is also about balancing and prioritizing time between different actions, from the beginning to the end.
    Yeah, you need to think about what meaning you get from whatever you do in yer life and plan accordingly.