Get a bidet!!! No irritation, just dab dry, helps immensely.

I was just being silly, I fricken love soccer! Born in America but grew up with a lot of European friends. Lots of fun drinking in pubs watching games with those lads. Caught a Rangers game in Ibrox a couple decades ago (I’m old)

Hahaha, yes! Also in the shower!

I also like to sing when I’m bored out of my mind.

Quality of life my friend goes for humans and animals. It is extremely difficult, and you will know best if she is suffering, but I’m so sorry, I think you already know the answer to your question.