Agreed. I don’t have the wisdom yet to reach such a view rooted in such different understanding. They think it’s charity when someone takes everything and gives a little and I see it as indignity.
Unfortunately it was the tools used on me to mold a understanding. I never was shown much patience or empathy with my views and it’s tough learning how to give it. In my day if 100 people told ypu you are wrong one would start to beleive it. Now a days everyone is galvanized and my way of teaching isn’t just not useful it’s more galvanizing. I’ll work on it soulg!
Meditate on the breath.