Friendly Neighborhood Computer man

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  • I wouldn’t say OP is advocating for everyone to adopt their path, just for individuals who take that path yo not feel stigmatized.

    I see two solutions to the issue presented. Issue one, proximity. I personally don’t hear or see the pressure to be in a relationship from ppl who aren’t. But family and friends who have a vested interest in the person, who also think relationship is the natural state will always worry.

    The solution to proximity involves part of solution 2 whivh is marketing. There should be a concept of monoship which society has largely forgotten. We had terms for them but never classified as a group. We would call these ppl “hermits” or “spinsters”. In reality introducing this concept and say your are in a relationship, just one a healthy monoship with yourself









  • Short answer is yes, Long answer is by how much depends on tos and what keep and use, and really what you consider risk.

    Before things were relatively mild, picture your jitsi meeting is a public cafe with a security cam. Someone would need specific info to see you at the cafe or get footage from the cafe owner. Now with ai training anything said or displayed could be used as training. Voice, speech patterns… Its a wild scale best to find reputable companies or selfhost


  • Well, start with what you have, and let that guide your needs.

    I started on my own windows xp machine. Before moving to a nas for image storage. Now, I have nextcloud running on a separate machine. With Arch documentation is very good where most services will be turn key. Especially if you don’t mind downtime. The best thing is get to know your setup. As that will be uniquely your setup, and let that guide your journey into madness 😄



  • I have reolink cameras and they were pretty plug n play.

    HA picked up the reolinks once connected, but integration with frigate requires some setup. The frigate HA integration works very well.

    Oh and for notifications to work well… Or how you expected to work. Having the mqtt server setup will help as well.