Thats a hell of a showerthought :D

But honestyl it’s not your sibling that makes your life worse. It’s most likely the pressure you set on yourself to be a “normal” person and the desire to get there. Find room for your negative thoughts, let them be, analyze them and at best find a therapist to talk to. They can help you through this and at least give you tools how to get around this. Don’t sit in this spiral of negativity and do nothing about it. This is a garantueed way to get a depression

A german word for a kiss on the cheek?

Oh, i saw your comment and tried really hard not to interact, but i really have to tell you something.

I use arch btw

Timeshift is a great tool for creating incremental backups. Basically it’s a frontend for rsync and it works great. If needed you can also use it in CLI