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Cake day: June 22nd, 2023

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  • I changed my gender at around 25 because I had significant issues with my voice, my body, and my genitals that caused me significant distress and interfered with my life, but they were present and ever increasing pretty much since I hit puberty. I knew something was wrong from an earlyish age, and dealt with it pretty much just when my husband was okay with it. I’d always envied women for their natural sex characteristics, and if I didn’t get a negative reaction when I came out as a teenager I would have transitioned much earlier.

    I think if you’re happy in your body’s secondary sex characteristics, you probably don’t have to worry about being trans. From what you’ve said here, it sounds to me like you probably aren’t.














  • I agree, but if this is unpopular it really oughtn’t be. I’ve always advertised up front that I’m a trans woman, because not everyone wants to date that and I wouldn’t want to be with anyone who doesn’t. I don’t think it’s at all unreasonable, and you’re totally right that people shouldn’t be shamed for that.

    That said, there’s ways of turning people down that absolutely deserve to be shamed, and not being interested in someone isn’t justification for say, telling a trans woman you aren’t interested because you like women.

    If you’re acting like a reasonable adult and treating people respectfully though, you should be respected in kind. People are entitled to being interested in who they’re interested in. If you aren’t attracted you aren’t attracted.