I am talking about love in the sense of romantic love. I am very short and ugly which makes me very unattractive. Never had a girlfriend or touched a girl. I have many girl friends but one of them was my crush but I never asked her as I knew she would never like me. I know people will say that just get successful and rich and girls will like you, but will they like me or just money. What is the point of dating then. Is there any way I will get genuine love or am I destined to live alone for life.

All the girls say they want a tall guy, I can’t grow my height, trust me I tried, I visited the doctor, I tried exercise, I tried hormones, I tried a special diet that some random YouTuber told me, I tried everything. I can’t become tall for you. I am still thinking about limb lengthening surgery, The doctor said it is very risky and very possible I could never walk, but I want to take every chance possible. Trust me I tried. As soon as I get money I am doing surgery. This was my limit I can’t go beyond that.

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    One thing’s for sure - reducing women to nothing but shallow height obsessed monsters (projecting your own insecurities on to a whole gender, the individuals of which you know nothing about, and worse - aren’t interested in finding out) isn’t it.

    What will make you attractive to women? Stop acting like a victim - there are plenty of short and ugly guys in healthy loving relationships, your external body isn’t why you’re not in a relationship, also, you are not owed or entitled to a relationship. Quit the toxic manosphere and any other space that confirms this bullshit bias for you cold turkey and never look back. If you can afford to, get therapy. Work on becoming a person other people would actually want to be around, rather than a stereotypical incel (you might not think of yourself as one, but you absolutely come across as one).

    You’re clearly not interested in hearing any of this, but that is the truth, not this red/black pill bullshit you’re regurgitating.

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        be humble and listen to other people first

        Lmmfao, says the person rejecting every single piece of advice being given to them… 🤣

        (hint: you don’t have to explicitly use a word for the implication to be oozing from your post. also - W O M E N. The fact that you can’t even use the word doesn’t help your point)

        E: also, I absolutely love the fact that you took offence to me using the word “monsters” (because acknowledging that that’s how you see women is acknowledging that women, and their rejection, scare you) but not to me calling you an incel. That’s your answer right there, if only you were capable of seeing past your cognitive dissonance…

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            For extra emphasis walk in to the beat of that beastie boys track - the velour track suit is optional but the attitude isn’t.