Truly a pretty terrible place for any kind of social activity.

People here are super self righteous and unwavering in their beliefs, quick to insult others and be generally bitchy, pedantic and quick to dogpile. Worst of all while still usually slightly wrong about a thing, but unwilling to hear it.

It’s basically the worst parts of reddit users where we have boiled it down to the most affluent or socially insecure.

Even if it’s as simple as a question people jump to defend their position with insults rather than answer it cause they get worried the person might be confused and it’s best to just make sure it’s a closed community as quick as possible.

This isn’t an open community it’s a private gated one where everyone jumped the fence and is scared that the wrong person might have come in with them.

Condescending is not welcoming.
Upvoting cause they are your in group isn’t community.
Berating outcasts cause you at least don’t feel like them is still bullying.

    • Krauerking@lemy.lolOPEnglish
      23·
      11 days ago

      I know that just fine. So what would knowing that matter or do for me? Or my comment?

      • Dark Arc@social.packetloss.ggEnglish
        5·
        11 days ago

        Which is insane since they insist on a economic system from 200 years ago.

        I think it’s just that your argument against communism seemed to be based on its age, i.e. it “being old and out dated.”

        (Agree communism is not great FWIW)

        • Krauerking@lemy.lolOPEnglish
          14·
          11 days ago

          Yeah i thought it was a clever dig against it and also fun turn since I think I have had better conversations about modern day pop culture on hexbear.

          I just wasn’t exactly in favor of capitalism anyways just wasn’t the point.

          Thanks for being my sanity check on that.

          • jeffw@lemmy.worldEnglish
            5·
            11 days ago

            I question what your criteria for a good pop culture discussion is if you enjoy discussions with a bunch of angry neckbeards

            • Krauerking@lemy.lolOPEnglish
              13·
              10 days ago

              They like to watch modern movies and shows that aren’t marvel, usually have good takes on influencera in here and have the right hate for vtubers.

              Plus I think they are just closer to my age and social awkward nerds that are easy to call neckbeards. I’m not gonna get pop culture references of Gen X who seem to make a majority in here.

              • jeffw@lemmy.worldEnglish
                3·
                10 days ago

                Gen X is overrepresented here relative to other social media, you’re correct.

                It sounds like you’re just espousing super generic hatred for “mainstream” culture though.

                And let me be clear, a nerd is nothing close to a neckbeard. You can be both, but those are not the same.

                • Krauerking@lemy.lolOPEnglish
                  1·
                  9 days ago

                  Why is it generic if it’s how I feel? Isn’t that just a way to claim people upset are wrong? The generic thing seems to be liking it. I’m just pointing out some of the awareness at least of what we are surrounded by anyways that doesn’t seem true for people in the gardening community with a huge house in the suburbs.

                  I have stuff I like. I just get stuck between young people panicking about existence in a shit world and gen x ignoring it with memes from 3 decades ago in here.

                  Yeah it’s annoying it’s the majority of conversations in here, but I don’t going around assuming people are neck beards help gets us off that.