My old person trait is that I think ‘ghosting’ is completely unacceptable and you owe the other person a face-to-face conversation.

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    a relationship is a voluntary situation

    Except if you’re standing next to me in the supermarket. Or at the bus stop. Or sitting near me in a restaurant. Or at the doctors office and so on. And in all of these situations, I expect common courtesy from you. Or I consider you as an asshole.

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      1 year ago

      since we are talking about ghosting and not a random interaction id say you are off topic.

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        No, you are talking about “ghosting”. You are the only person in this comment thread to type that word, twice. This post is not simply about ghosting, it is about “old person traits”. You can tell because you can read the title.

        a relationship is a voluntary situation that can be interrupted at any time for any reason

        Common incel energy.

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          1 year ago

          hahah right pull the incel card that will make your argument so strong… pathetic

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              It was mentioned in the original post in the body of the text, just not in the image. I think that’s the confusion.

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                Lol k. Well when you grow up and learn to have a proper and mature debate/argument, we’ll be here.

                Till then, it might be helpful for you to learn nuance~

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                  Idk but at least I don’t leave pointless comments like yours.

                  Thanks for your input!

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                    Yes you do, it’s why I responded the way I did. Now that you’ve responded in this manner I can be sure it’s natural stupidity.